Wednesday, April 2, 2008

Coincidence is rolling. So Run!

Successful business would be never a coincidence. However, many of the "terms and conditions" affected the business are.

People are trying to say to themselves and to others that "This is NOT a coincidence. It cannot be"!

Well, the main purpose that you would tell all of these stories of inconsistency in life is to gain confidence that there is a meaning behind bad (or sometimes good) things that are happening to you or to your lovers. "This is NOT a coincidence" belong to the family of "this is not my fault" or "it isn't fair".

Saying that everything is coincidence put much more pressure on the single business player than saying that some third party is involved in every body's life. But saying that "Coincidence is rolling" doesn't mean anybody has equal conditions and that every body's race starts at the same point. It hasn't.

For example: say that if two persons arrive in the train station some randomly time during the day, both of them schedules an important meeting starts in 20 minuets; and we know for sure that the train arrives every 15 minuets, and that the period of their rout is 10 minutes, so it would be true to say that it takes any of them between 10-25 minuets to get to the meeting, and that both of them has the same EQUAL chances of 33.3% to get late. The timing of the train is totally randomal. And this is were the Coincidence is rolling. And it doesn't help to the guy that wear the CK suit + ROLEX to get a better timing of the train (even if his father is one of the owners - train's schedule tend to be fixed ahead), than the guy that plan to come to the meeting with a T-Shirt.

However, the way each of the two guys acts in case of late is different and open. They can run and apologize, they can call and apologize, they have the possibility to stop and buy a small Kandy to the boss's little girl, they can simply avoid the late and get inside starting a small talk like non of it happened.

We could learn from this case that coincidence is rolling in external terms but the way the player treat the terms is totally depend on him. It would be easier to say: "sure I'm going to late". "It should have happened". "I shouldn't go there anymore". "A Force Major wants me to stay out of this business".

COME ON! Man, you got to run!

Run. Play the game in the appropriate way. Stop for another 30 seconds and buy a Kandy to the Boss's little girl, before stepping in brash your hair, enter in and say something like: "what a wonderful day, could be an ideal if the trains would be like they should be: get on time", and smile. Now you have to close a deal BECAUSE you have been late, and not despite.

THIS part is NOT Coincidence, but your job.

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