Tuesday, April 1, 2008

Eat Drink Talk

"Son. Eat the "right" things. Drink the "right" things. Talk to the "right" people. Son..."

Have you ever heard this sentence as is or in a pretty similar variation in your life?
I'm sure you have. This is not a smart one. It is a one that intend to put you in a self made prison for the rest of your shorter life.

You are not a "Son". Only GOD and your Parents allowed to call you "My son". You have just became a 'Person'! You should remember that at the very first moment you communicate to yourself and to other people, especially Businessmen.

Being a 'Person' means something. It means independently. It means loyalty to your self and to other people. It means commitment responsibility. It means partnership. It means confidence.

"Son" is not loyal to no one but to its immediate needs. And he is treated as such. Son is not independent but dependent. Son cannot be a potential partner and is not deserve a trust, at least as long as he is defined as a "Son".

So actually before approaching other persons, decide if you are a needy "Son" or a respected "Person". It is essential to the relationships with yourself and with others. Sooner or later it would influence your business life and the structire and depth of your business connections.

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