Why Paying Tuition Fees Already Paid

Use other's experience is not just a regular recommendation fifty y.o. father gives to his 20 y.o. son for free as a routine. Talking about routines, routine habits is not our subject but we should say a few words about them. Actually it is something to dislike, and the only routine I would suggest you is asking yourself by the end of every single day: "What have I missed here today"? You shall keep asking this question every single night (starting right away), and most importantly when our day was a great productive and constrictive day.

But I would like to take this too-much-popular issue of "use other's experience" one step ahead. I would carefully say that it is essential for you to get much closer to people that made mistakes. At the same time of getting closer to normal people that simply made mistakes, you should be aware to a small portion among them that a mistake for them is a routine. Obstinateness is an output of selfishness. Sooner or later, too selfish people tend to tern into repeating pattern of unwanted situations. They tend to find themselves dealing with these situation pretty much alone. You cannot and should not fight by your own. Means keep the selfish, obstinate people aside.

But more important and critical for your future than the few persons you better leave aside, is the many people you shall get closer to. It is right to say that learning from another person's bad experience is totally different than experience this bad situation by yourself. True. But from the other hand, if you are sharp enough to discover the people with bad-experienced, put aside those of them who are consistently and repeat mistaking, and get closer to those of them that are developed, open, positive and frank enough to share with you their insights, worn you from incidences touched their lives - it is like you almost experienced their situation by yourself. Of course, without paying its fees...

We should got back to your Father for a minute. Only persons that love you, or at least really likes you or committed to your future would share with you in a frank and respectful way their bad experiences. Persons like that could be your parents. Or a good loyal friend. Or your supportive Boss. Or very friendly colleagues. Sometimes even your employees or workers could do the job. It is NOT necessarily matter of age (though, to be honest, there is a positive correlation between age and bad-experience).

Now STOP and Listen to these people. These people are honorable because they have blessed in a vision. Vision of sharing. Vision of openness to others. Somehow they have chosen to do that despite the fact that they are risking in getting their sensitive information back to them in disrespect. From their side, doing that means that though they have paid there tuition fees in complete they are sharing their degree with YOU.